Izgubila dijete u 12. sedmici trudnoće: Još jedna glumica otkrila da je izgubila bebu

Britanska glumica i reality zvijezda, Alexandra Felstead, poznatija pod nadimkom Binky, doživjela je ono od čega strepi svaka trudnica. Nedavno je otkrila kako je izgubila dijete u 12. sedmici trudnoće, a šta se tačno dogodilo, opisala je, gdje drugo, nego na društvenim mrežama. Na Instagramu je podijelila fotografiju zalaska sunca, a ono što je pored napisala nikoga nije ostavilo ravnodušnim.

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I’ve thought long and hard about doing this post, but I felt that if I can pass on any warmth, comfort or help to anybody in the same position – well that would be great. It’s only fair that I share some of my “downs” as well as my “up” moments. Today would have been my 18 week mark, but sadly we had an early miscarriage just before 12 weeks. Not only was this heartbreaking for us, but it also came as such a shock to me. I hadn’t realised until then how blessed I was with having such a relatively straight forward pregnancy with India – I’ll admit I was naive enough to assume the next one would be as straightforward, but I had two early scans as I was concerned I was bleeding. They found a ‘very strong’ heartbeat. However, on the third scan I was told ‘I’m afraid there’s no heartbeat’. I was told by my doctor that 1 in 4 pregnancies miscarry (not that statistics make it any easier!) With 82% of my following being women – that means roughly 237,800 women “following” me could (or have) experienced the same, which is just so sad. When speaking to a few close friends about our situation, we learned that some of them too have had miscarriages in the past. I asked them why they’ve never said anything, and they just said they felt they couldn't, or shouldn’t talk about it. Almost like it’s a taboo subject, which is heartbreaking. If you have been through this, I hope you are giving yourself time to mentally and physically heal and do what you need. I keep reminding myself that there was nothing I could have done, and perhaps this was nature’s way of saying that for whatever reason, this little soul wasn’t ready for the world. Sending so so much love 🤍🙏🏼 I later learned that @miscarriageassociation is available to help anyone who has/is experiencing this. It’s a national charity that provides support and information for anyone who’s affected by miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy, this includes both women and men. You can call their helpline or talk to them on live chat or even message them on Instagram, and they will do whatever they can to help you through. See www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk #babylossawarenessweek

A post shared by BINKY FELSTEAD (@binkyfelstead) on Oct 12, 2020 at 9:52am PDT

– Dugo sam razmišljala hoću li ovo objaviti, ali ako mogu nekome pružiti malo topline, utjehe ili pomoću – to je super. Jedino je pošteno da podijelim svoje uspone, ali i padove. Danas bih prošla 18. sedmicu, ali nažalost doživjela sam pobačaj u 12. sedmici. Ne samo da nam je to slomilo srca, već je došlo meni kao svojevrsni šok. Nisam bila svjesna koliko sam blagoslovljena time što sam imala urednu trudnoću s Indiom – priznala je glumica koja se nedavno zaručila za dečka Maxa Dartona, a iz prethodne veze ima trogodišnju kćerkicu Indiju.

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The easiest ‘Yes’ EVER! 💍 On Friday morning, on their way to the duck pond, Max asked India for her permission to ask her mummy to marry him. I love you Max- you bring out the best in me. Im so lucky ❤️

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– Priznajem da sam bila naivna kada sam pretpostavila da će mi i druga trudnoća biti tako uredna. Međutim, dva puta sam išla na ultrazvuk jer sam krvarila. Osjetili su se jaki udarci srca bebe. Međutim, na trećem ultrazvuku rekli su mi da se srce više ne čuje – rekla je glumica. Liječnik mi je tada rekao kako jedna od četiri trudnoće završi pobačajem. Ako ste prošle kroz ovo, nadam se da ste sebi dozvolile da psihički i fizički zacijelite. Ja sebe stalno podsjećam kako nije bilo ničega što sam ja mogla napraviti, i možda je to način na koji je priroda rekla kako ta malena duša još nije bila spremna za ovaj svijet – zaključuje Binky.

Izvor: Story.hr